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How we love : discover your love style, enhance your marriage

by Yerkovich, Milan (Author), Yerkovich, Kay (Author)

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Are you tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? Do you dream of a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? Are you struggling under a load of resentment? The key to creating a deeper bond in your marriage may lie buried in your childhood. Your early life experiences create... Full description


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Table of Contents:
  • Part 1. What determines how you love. Why every marriage gets stuck
  • The revealing question you need to answer
  • Imprints of intimacy from our first lessons in love
  • Ideal love lessons: the secure connector
  • Part 2. Styles that impair how we love. The avoider love style
  • The pleaser love style
  • The Vacillator love style
  • The chaotic (controller and victim) love styles
  • Identifying your love style
  • Part 3. Duets that damage how we love. The vacillator marries the avoider
  • The pleaser marries the vacillator
  • The controller marries the victim
  • The avoider marries the pleaser
  • Other challenging combinations
  • Part 4. Changing how we love. The comfort circle
  • Seek awareness
  • Engage
  • Explore
  • Resolve
  • Seeing into your spouse's soul.